About Me

On this page you can discover all about:
My Qualifications:
  • Previous student of Sacred Intimacy through a Tantra Lens.
  • Professional experience since mid 2016
  • Decades of life experience across many cultures
  • Extensive education in psychology, sexuality, anatomy, and physiology.
  • M.S. Psychology, B.S. Biology, B.A. Chemistry


Who I Am

I am many things but first I am a Sacred Intimate. To find out more about what that means, check out this brief article by Don Shewey (unlike him, I am not trained in massage). As a sexual healer I use the healing power of pleasure to help heal sexual trauma. I’m also a somatic sex coach, which means I can provide advanced knowledge and somatic practices to improve your ability to connect with others and experience increasingly ecstatic pleasure.

I am a sex-positive, kinky, queer, embodied, caring & wise, sweet dom Daddy who strongly values sexual, gender, and relationship diversity. I am based in central San Francisco, California, and can travel locally or (by arrangement) long distance. Skype or telephone appointments can also be arranged for long distance work.

What Sets Me Apart
I am experienced, skilled, intuitive, responsive, uninhibited, & passionate. I model effective and mood-lifting verbal and non-verbal communication. I am well versed in patience, support, and/or a therapeutic approach.
I am often complimented for my knack at making others feel at ease, uplifted, and aroused. I have a unique sense of humor that I bring to my work in appropriate ways to remind others that sex is meant to be FUN. 


My Philosophy

I believe that sex is not an optional indulgence. It serves a much deeper purpose than just for the sake of pleasure. Human touch and sexual fulfillment are foundational to our happiness and well-being as individuals and as a society. The lifted spirit and love we embody and project from a healthy sex life does a great service to ourselves and society. 


My Journey

I grew up as an awkward out-cast in sex-negative, puritanical, and homophobic middle America. I came out as gay in the early ’90s when LGBTQ+ role models lighting the path were hard to come by. I evolved and grew into a strong self-awareness through decades of traveling, exploring, and learning to foster self-love, sociability, and sex-ability. I love to share what I’ve discovered with others on their journey to fulfillment.
I’ve worked through our culture’s negative messages and beliefs about my body and my sexuality. I’ve grown to stand proud in my sexuality against negative judgement. I’ve learned how to foster confidence and pursue whatever I want, and I have taught others how to do the same. I’ve lived and traveled across the globe, inspired and informed by other cultures with a healthier relationship to sexuality. I am always seeking learning experiences to grow and improve my craft of connecting with others.
I’ve spent time living inauthentically and experienced first hand the suffering it causes. I’ve learned ways to live authentically and I can help you do the same. My formal and informal education includes extensive sexuality, biology, anatomy, physiology, non-violent communication, and psychology. I also have decades of personal life experience and professional resources to draw from. 

After a long, winding, and ultimately unfulfilling career in tech, I began this work later in life. As a person who craves new experiences, there came a moment of curiosity to try this work for a hot minute, to see what it feels like. Maybe a month or two. “A story for the old folks home” is what I wanted, before returning to a different career trajectory.

What I found though was life changing.  I found my calling. I see how disconnected and sex-negative my culture is. I see how healing pleasure is. I see how the advanced & unique skills I’ve acquired over decades of intercontinental promiscuity, curiosity, and education lighten up the lives of my clients. I love how I’ve been able to provide transformational erotic experiences that help people elevate their eroticism and joy. I’m delighted to discover and invigorate the sexiness in clients of all adult ages, sizes, & body types. I have a special weakness for elders of all ages whose generation fought for all the rights and sexual liberation for which I owe credit & gratitude.

How To Find Out More

If you’ve read this far, thank you for giving me your time and consideration. Choosing a provider is a big decision and it’s essential get a sense of who I am and what I’m like. The best way to do so is in a free, private, one-on-one, telephone consultation where we can get acquainted and I can answer your questions and tell you more about my approach specific to your situation to help you decide your next step. I invite you to schedule this free call today in my Contact page.