About Me

  • Previous student of Sacred Intimacy through a Tantra Lens.
  • Professional experience since mid 2016
  • Decades of life experience across many cultures
  • Extensive education in psychology, sexuality, anatomy, and physiology.
  • M.S. Psychology, B.S. Biology, B.A. Chemistry


I am a Sacred Intimate, and if you want to read more about what that means, check out this brief article by Don Shewey (unlike him, I am not trained in massage). I am a queer, sex-positive, often-kinky, polyamorous, vegan-wanna-be, homoflexible, cisgender gay man, who strongly values sexual, gender, and relationship diversity. I am based in central San Francisco, California, and can travel locally or (by arrangement) long distance. Skype or telephone appointments can also be arranged for long distance work.

I believe that sex is not an optional indulgence. It serves a much deeper purpose than just for the sake of pleasure. Human touch and sexual fulfillment are foundational to our happiness and well-being as individuals and as a society. The lifted spirit and love we embody and project from a healthy sex life does a great service to ourselves and society.
I grew up as an awkward out-cast in sex-negative, puritanical, and homophobic middle America. I came out as gay in the early ’90s when LGBTQ+ role models lighting the path were hard to come by. I evolved and grew into a strong self-awareness through decades of traveling, exploring, and learning to foster self-love, sociability, and sex-ability. I love to share what I’ve discovered with others on their journey to fulfillment.
I’ve worked through our culture’s negative messages and beliefs about my body and my sexuality. I’ve grown to stand proud in my sexuality against negative judgement. I’ve learned how to foster confidence and pursue whatever I want, and I have taught others how to do the same. I’ve lived and traveled across the globe, inspired and informed by other cultures with a healthier relationship to sexuality. I am always seeking learning experiences to grow and improve my craft of connecting with others.
I’ve spent time living inauthentically and experienced first hand the suffering it causes. I’ve learned ways to live authentically and I can help you do the same. My formal and informal education includes extensive sexuality, biology, anatomy, physiology, non-violent communication, and psychology. I also have decades of personal life experience and professional resources to draw from.
I am experienced, skilled, intuitive, responsive, uninhibited, & passionate. I model effective and mood-lifting verbal and non-verbal communication. I am well versed in patience, support, and/or a therapeutic approach.
I am often complimented for my knack at making others feel at ease, uplifted, and aroused. I have a unique sense of humor that I bring to my work in appropriate ways to remind others that sex is meant to be FUN.
If you’ve read this far and are still awake, thank you! Choosing who you may work with in this regard is a big decision and it’s good for you to get a sense of who I am and what I’m like. Be sure to checkout the Contact page to be in touch for a free brief telephone conversation which will give you a better sense of what I’m like.